• Sex Is…
    Friday, July 3rd, 2020

    Sex Is…

    “It was a mistake,” you said. But the cruel thing was, it felt like the mistake was mine, for trusting you. Many sex and porn addicts believe that full-on...
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  • Connecting with Nature
    Wednesday, July 1st, 2020

    Connecting with Nature

    How can you travel to the ends of the world and not pause to enjoy the views? Feeling isolated, separated, and disconnected are hallmarks of sex and porn addiction....
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  • Sexual Integrity
    Tuesday, June 30th, 2020

    Sexual Integrity

    With integrity, you have nothing to fear since you have nothing to hide. A primary goal for most recovering sex and porn addicts is developing what Dr. Rob Weiss...
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  • Windows vs. Walls
    Monday, June 29th, 2020

    Windows vs. Walls

    It’s discouraging to think how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit. Sometimes therapists specializing in infidelity and couple’s work suggest using the concept of...
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  • Shame as an Underlying Issue
    Saturday, June 27th, 2020

    Shame as an Underlying Issue

    Shame is like quicksand. It sucks us in and tries to kill us. Nearly all sex and porn addicts are shame-based to one degree or another. As such, we...
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  • What Does ‘Winning’ Mean to You?
    Friday, June 26th, 2020

    What Does ‘Winning’ Mean to You?

    I have failed over and over in my life. That is why I succeed. Winning can mean different things to different people. For recovering addicts, part of winning is...
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  • None of Us Is Like the Rest of Us
    Thursday, June 25th, 2020

    None of Us Is Like the Rest of Us

    Becoming whole means knowing where we come from, how we make mistakes, and how we overcome things to make ourselves stronger. Every sex and porn addict is different. Each...
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