• Overcoming Life’s Difficulties
    Tuesday, April 9th, 2019

    Overcoming Life’s Difficulties

    Challenges are what make life interesting. Overcoming them is what makes life meaningful. If we can take life’s obstacles and say, “OK, it is what it is. Now how...
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  • The “G” Word
    Monday, April 8th, 2019

    The “G” Word

    The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing. Some recovering sex addicts, especially those new to recovery, can get turned off by other addicts’ use of the...
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  • Sex Addiction is Not About the Sex
    Sunday, April 7th, 2019

    Sex Addiction is Not About the Sex

    There is a big difference between ongoing happiness and chasing euphoric moments as an escape. Sex addicts are hooked on the dissociative euphoria (the trance/bubble) produced by their intense...
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  • Working Step Four
    Saturday, April 6th, 2019

    Working Step Four

    Honest self-reflection opens the mind to reprogramming, change, success, and freedom. Often, as recovering sex and porn addicts, we dread the thought of Step Four, of taking a searching...
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  • How Do I Get a 12-Step Sponsor?
    Friday, April 5th, 2019

    How Do I Get a 12-Step Sponsor?

    Asking for guidance is a divine compliment. Sponsors are personal guides to healing and staying sexually sober. You choose a sponsor by listening to various people at meetings until...
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  • Can Teens Be Sex Addicts?
    Thursday, April 4th, 2019

    Can Teens Be Sex Addicts?

    Most parents (and schools) are afraid to talk to kids about things like sex and addictions. Asking if teens can become sexually addicted is a bit like asking if...
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  • Trying (and Failing) to Quit
    Wednesday, April 3rd, 2019

    Trying (and Failing) to Quit

    Buddha says: If a man can control his mind, he can find the way to Enlightenment, and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him. As sex addicts,...
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  • The Neurobiology of Addiction
    Tuesday, April 2nd, 2019

    The Neurobiology of Addiction

    The only significant difference between substance and sex addictions is that substance addicts ingest alcohol or drugs to create an emotionally escapist neurochemical reaction, whereas sex addicts rely on...
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  • Working Step Four
    Monday, April 1st, 2019

    Working Step Four

    We don’t learn by doing, we learn by reflecting on what we’ve done. For many recovering sex addicts, Step Four is a huge sticking point. The idea of taking...
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