Friday, October 4th, 2024
Step 10: Ongoing Maintenance
When you are at your lowest, look to your highest. With Step 10, we continue to take personal inventory, and when we are wrong, we promptly admit it. Unlike...
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Thursday, October 3rd, 2024Addiction and Compartmentalization
Danger lurks when we try to divide ourselves with phrases such as ‘my private life.’ Sex and porn addicts share certain characteristics. One of the common traits is that... -
Wednesday, October 2nd, 2024It’s OK to Say No
No is a complete sentence, and it does not require an explanation. For some of us, the hardest word to pronounce in the entire English language is no. We... -
Tuesday, October 1st, 2024Quiet Participation in Meetings
You can listen to silence and learn from it. The easiest way for a recovering sex or porn addict to be of service in a 12-step meeting is to... -
Monday, September 30th, 2024Liar, Liar
I could conceive death, but I could not conceive betrayal. For many active sex and porn addicts, the immediate and best solution to a loss of relationship trust is... -
Sunday, September 29th, 2024Sexual Integrity
Try not to become a person of success, but a person of integrity. A primary goal for most recovering sex and porn addicts is developing what Dr. Rob Weiss... -
Saturday, September 28th, 2024Sexual Sobriety vs. Sexual Abstinence
The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely. Sex and porn addicts in the early stages of recovery typically have little to no idea what the term ‘sexual... -
Friday, September 27th, 2024Overcoming the Shame of Porn Addiction
A moment of self-compassion can change your entire day. A string of such moments can change the course of your life. Porn addicts are often reluctant to seek help.... -
Thursday, September 26th, 2024Get Gritty
Over time, grit is what separates fruitful lives from aimlessness. Research shows that when kids are praised for being hard workers, they do better than kids who are praised...