• Withdrawal
    Sunday, March 31st, 2024

    Withdrawal

    When things go wrong, don’t go with them. The core signs and symptoms of sex and porn addiction are generally the same regardless of age, race, gender, social history,...
  • Are You Struggling With the Steps?
    Saturday, March 30th, 2024

    Are You Struggling With the Steps?

    There is no illusion greater than fear. The 12 steps can seem a bit daunting. Sure, when we go to our first sexual recovery meeting and read the steps...
  • Working Step 3
    Friday, March 29th, 2024

    Working Step 3

    Your true self is a boundless spiritual being. You are spirit in body. Step 3 reads: “Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the...
  • I Thought I Was the Only One
    Thursday, March 28th, 2024

    I Thought I Was the Only One

    Reaching out to others can be profoundly healing. Sex and porn addiction can harm our sense of reality, interfere with healthy relationships, and force us into social isolation. One...
  • The Hole in the Soul
    Wednesday, March 27th, 2024

    The Hole in the Soul

    Addictions are an attempt to externally fill an internal void. Sex and porn addicts share certain characteristics. One of these common traits is that even when we got the...
  • Bookending Keeps Us Sober
    Tuesday, March 26th, 2024

    Bookending Keeps Us Sober

    When I’m at the bottom looking up, the main question may not be, “How do I get out of this hole?” In reality, the main question might be, “How...
  • Porn Addiction Can Ruin Real-World Sex
    Monday, March 25th, 2024

    Porn Addiction Can Ruin Real-World Sex

    What’s the point of being alive if you don’t at least try to do something remarkable? Research shows that approximately 1 in 4 male sex addicts struggles with sexual...
  • Here’s Wishing You a Long, Slow Recovery
    Sunday, March 24th, 2024

    Here’s Wishing You a Long, Slow Recovery

    Sobriety is a long and winding path, and none of us ever really knows where it’s leading. One long-recovering sex addict loves to tell the story of his 90th...
  • Hooked on Porn?
    Saturday, March 23rd, 2024

    Hooked on Porn?

    The amount of porn on the internet is unmeasurable. In their book, A Billion Wicked Thoughts, researchers Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam write: “In 1991, the year the World...