Scars represent not injury, but healing. Scars are what make us whole again.
Healing from sex and porn addiction brings self-knowledge, integrity, and a desire to become vulnerable (to be known for who we truly are, warts and all). This new approach to life slowly but steadily replaces the double-life that we have been living. When approached actively and honestly, sexual recovery creates unexpected levels of emotional maturity and hope for a future filled with life-affirming friendships and loving romantic relationships. Recovering from sex and porn addiction is not easy, but it is always worth the effort.
Task for Today
Ask yourself why you want to be sexually sober. What important aspect(s) of your life will improve with long-term sobriety?