Sex addicts don’t have to be married or monogamous to be sexually sober. 

Long-term monogamy may be the goal for some (maybe even most) recovering sex addicts, but it is not by any stretch a necessity. In today’s world, healing from sexual addiction can encompass almost any sort of sexual or romantic connection – as long as it’s not secretive, abusive to self or others, used to avoid feelings, or causing problems to the addict and/or the addict’s loved ones. Sexual recovery is less about cultural norms like monogamy, and more about the elimination of problematic sexual activity and the development of sexual integrity.

Just for Today
Stop comparing your sexual sobriety plan to everyone else’s.