Becoming whole means knowing where we come from, how we make mistakes, and how we overcome things to make ourselves stronger.
Every sex and porn addict is different. Each of us has a unique life history, specific problematic sexual behaviors, and singular goals for recovery. Because of this, every sexual sobriety plan is different. Behaviors that are deeply troubling for one sex or porn addict may be perfectly acceptable for another, and vice versa. As such, there is no set formula for defining and living in sexual sobriety. The key is for each of us to be totally, completely, and brutally honest when formulating our sexual sobriety plan.
Task for Today
Stop comparing your sexual sobriety plan to the plans of others. Nobody benefits from that type of judgment.