I cannot go back and make a new start, but I can start from now and make a new end.

The road of spiritual fitness narrows over time. Behaviors that seemed perfectly OK while active in sexual addiction or during early recovery (telling white lies, gossiping, eating a few grapes at the grocery store without paying for them, cutting someone off in traffic, etc.) become, over time, much less acceptable for the majority of recovering sex addicts. In other words, the definition of “spiritually fit” changes, becoming ever more stringent, as recovering sex addicts mature in their sobriety.

Just for Today
I will identify a behavior or thinking pattern that used to be OK but isn’t today.