Don’t look at or judge your past too harshly. You don’t live there anymore.
The road of spiritual fitness narrows over time. Behaviors that seemed perfectly OK while active in addiction or during early recovery (telling white lies, gossiping, eating a few grapes at the grocery store without paying for them, cutting someone off in traffic, etc.) become, over time, much less acceptable for the majority of recovering sex and porn addicts. In other words, our definition of ‘spiritually fit’ changes, becoming ever more stringent, as we mature in our sobriety.
Task for Today
Identify a behavior or thinking pattern that used to be OK but isn’t now. Share about this in a meeting.