Tag Archives: 12 Steps

  • Working Step 3
    Friday, March 1st, 2024

    Working Step 3

    I would rather walk every day in the darkness with a God who remains a mystery to me than in the light with a God I completely understand. In...
  • Working Step 2
    Wednesday, February 28th, 2024

    Working Step 2

    Tell me and I forget, teach me and I remember, involve me and I learn. Many sex and porn addicts do not want to accept outside assistance as part...
  • Working Step 2
    Thursday, February 22nd, 2024

    Working Step 2

    Faith in something greater than ourselves enables us to do what we have said we’ll do, to press forward when we are tired or hurt or afraid, to keep...
  • Working Step 2
    Thursday, February 15th, 2024

    Working Step 2

    The process of change begins with self-awareness. Those of us who struggle with the ‘restore us to sanity’ language that appears in Step 2 might want to consider the...
  • Working Step 2
    Thursday, February 8th, 2024

    Working Step 2

    The addict’s definition of insanity: Doing the same thing over and over but expecting different results. One issue that many recovering sex and porn addicts have with Step 2...
  • Working Step 2
    Thursday, February 1st, 2024

    Working Step 2

    As sex and porn addicts, we fool ourselves into believing we don’t need help. Thoroughly working Step 2—coming to believe that a power greater than ourselves will restore us...
  • Sharing Your Step One Inventories
    Monday, January 22nd, 2024

    Sharing Your Step One Inventories

    Letting go of secrets gives you the freedom to move forward with a different, better life. For most recovering sex and porn addicts, creating powerlessness and unmanageability inventories is...
  • Working Step One: The Unmanageability Inventory
    Monday, January 15th, 2024

    Working Step One: The Unmanageability Inventory

    Without reflection, we go blindly on our way, creating more consequences and failing to understand that we, not others, are at fault. One way to measure the unmanageability of...
  • Working Step One: The Powerlessness Inventory
    Monday, January 8th, 2024

    Working Step One: The Powerlessness Inventory

    Step 1 reinforces our ‘moment of clarity,’ cementing our desire for recovery. Being powerless means we have lost control over our sexual behaviors. We engage in these behaviors compulsively,...