Tag Archives: addiction aftereffects

  • What Have You Missed?
    Sunday, May 12th, 2019

    What Have You Missed?

    A primary difference between addicts and non-addicts is non-addicts change their behavior to meet their goals, while addicts change their goals to meet their behaviors. As active sex and...
  • Sex Addiction is Not Fun
    Sunday, January 20th, 2019

    Sex Addiction is Not Fun

    If you need an analogy for addiction, imagine living without air. Then imagine something worse. When we say the words “sex addiction” to non-addicted people, the knee-jerk response is...
  • Working Step One: The Unmanageability Inventory
    Tuesday, January 15th, 2019

    Working Step One: The Unmanageability Inventory

    Without reflection, we go blindly on our way, creating more consequences and failing to understand that we, not others, are at fault.   One way to measure the unmanageability...
  • Addiction Creates Chaos
    Friday, January 11th, 2019

    Addiction Creates Chaos

    I am amazed at how many of my problems – most of which had nothing to do with my addiction, I thought – have become manageable or simply disappeared...
  • What Have You Missed?
    Sunday, October 28th, 2018

    What Have You Missed?

    A primary difference between addicts and non-addicts is non-addicts change their behavior to meet their goals, while addicts change their goals to meet their behaviors. Sex addicts often forget...
  • Addiction Creates Chaos
    Sunday, October 21st, 2018

    Addiction Creates Chaos

    I am amazed at how many of my problems—most of which had nothing to do with my addiction, I thought—have become manageable or simply disappeared since I got sober....