Tag Archives: lies

  • Gaslighting Makes Betrayal Worse
    Friday, February 23rd, 2024

    Gaslighting Makes Betrayal Worse

    Gaslighting is an attempt to alter the truth. Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse that involves the presentation of false information followed by dogged insistence that the information...
  • To Tell or Not to Tell…
    Monday, February 5th, 2024

    To Tell or Not to Tell…

    The truth may hurt for a while. A lie hurts forever. If you are looking for advice that will tell you that after you cheat on your significant other,...
  • Did Your Cheating Partner ‘Gaslight’ You?
    Tuesday, September 8th, 2020

    Did Your Cheating Partner ‘Gaslight’ You?

    What is Gaslighting? If you’ve been cheated on, it’s likely that you also experienced some degree of what psychologists refer to as gaslighting. Gaslighting, in case you’re wondering, is...
  • The Damage Done
    Thursday, October 31st, 2019

    The Damage Done

    Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Typically, it’s not any specific sexual or romantic act that causes the most...
  • Liar, Liar
    Monday, September 30th, 2019

    Liar, Liar

    I could conceive death, but I could not conceive betrayal. For many active sex and porn addicts, the immediate and best solution to a loss of relationship trust is...
  • Sex and Porn Addiction and Secrecy
    Wednesday, September 18th, 2019

    Sex and Porn Addiction and Secrecy

    If you want to keep a secret, you must also hide it from yourself. As active sex and porn addicts, we organized our entire lives around sexual fantasy and...
  • The Desire for Escape
    Saturday, February 10th, 2018

    The Desire for Escape

    Closing your eyes and plugging your ears won’t fix anything. Sex addicts use sexual fantasy and behavior to numb out and not feel emotional discomfort. They do this regardless...
  • Sex Addiction and Secrecy
    Thursday, February 8th, 2018

    Sex Addiction and Secrecy

    If you want to keep a secret, you must also hide it from yourself. Sexually addictive behaviors often escalate to the point where addicts violate their inner values and...