Monday, May 4th, 2020
Creating a Sexual Sobriety Plan
It is not wise to leave a dragon out of your calculations if you live near him. Many sex and porn addicts new to the healing process openly wonder:...
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Tag Archives: sexual sobriety
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Wednesday, March 18th, 2020Understanding Sexual Sobriety
In recovery, the road narrows but the horizon widens. In sexual recovery, the definition of and boundaries for sobriety are determined based on each addict’s unique history and goals....Read More -
Friday, February 21st, 2020Masturbation in Sexual Recovery
Some (but not all) sex and porn addicts have a pathological relationship with masturbation. When constructing a sexual sobriety plan, sometimes referred to as a circle or boundary plan,...Read More -
Friday, January 31st, 2020The Power of Sexual Fantasy
Lost for now is not the same thing as lost forever. We can find our way back. As sex and porn addicts, our primary coping mechanism for any and...Read More -
Tuesday, January 28th, 2020Sexual Sobriety Plans Need to Be Clear
When people will not weed their own minds, they are apt to be overrun by nettles. Sexual sobriety plans, also known as circle plans and boundary plans, are created...Read More -
Sunday, January 5th, 2020What is ‘Sexual Sobriety’?
The ultimate goal of sexual recovery is learning to be sexual in healthy, life-affirming ways. People not familiar with sex and porn addiction often think that sexual sobriety, like...Read More -
Friday, November 15th, 2019My Sobriety is Not Your Sobriety
Don’t be different just to be different. Do it to be the most authentic version of yourself. Long-term monogamy may be the goal for some (maybe even most) recovering...Read More -
Saturday, September 28th, 2019Sexual Sobriety vs. Sexual Abstinence
The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely. Sex and porn addicts in the early stages of recovery typically have little to no idea what the term ‘sexual...Read More -
Wednesday, September 4th, 2019Purposeful Recovery
Sex and porn addicts, like everyone else, were put on this earth to live their greatest self. The way in which sexual sobriety is defined is not set in...Read More