Friday, June 25th, 2021
None of Us Is Like the Rest of Us
Becoming whole means knowing where we come from, how we make mistakes, and how we overcome things to make ourselves stronger. Every sex and porn addict is different. Each...
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Tag Archives: sexual sobriety
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Tuesday, May 4th, 2021Creating a Sexual Sobriety Plan
It is not wise to leave a dragon out of your calculations if you live near him. Many sex and porn addicts new to the healing process openly wonder:...Read More -
Monday, April 19th, 2021Sexual Sobriety Planning (Circle/Boundary Plans)
In last week’s post we discussed the difference between sexual sobriety and sexual abstinence. This week we continue our discussion of sexual sobriety by looking at circle/boundary plans. For...Read More -
Monday, April 12th, 2021Sexual Sobriety vs. Sexual Abstinence
Sex, porn, and substance/sex addicts in the early stages of recovery and healing typically have little to no idea what the term “sexual sobriety” means. Many worry that sexual...Read More -
Thursday, March 18th, 2021Understanding Sexual Sobriety
In recovery, the road narrows but the horizon widens. In sexual recovery, the definition of and boundaries for sobriety are determined based on each addict’s unique history and goals....Read More -
Sunday, February 21st, 2021Masturbation in Sexual Recovery
Some (but not all) sex and porn addicts have a pathological relationship with masturbation. When constructing a sexual sobriety plan, sometimes referred to as a circle or boundary plan,...Read More -
Sunday, January 31st, 2021The Power of Sexual Fantasy
Lost for now is not the same thing as lost forever. We can find our way back. As sex and porn addicts, our primary coping mechanism for any and...Read More -
Thursday, January 28th, 2021Sexual Sobriety Plans Need to Be Clear
When people will not weed their own minds, they are apt to be overrun by nettles. Sexual sobriety plans, also known as circle plans and boundary plans, are created...Read More -
Tuesday, January 5th, 2021What is ‘Sexual Sobriety’?
The ultimate goal of sexual recovery is learning to be sexual in healthy, life-affirming ways. People not familiar with sex and porn addiction often think that sexual sobriety, like...Read More