The easiest way to find Heaven is to slowly back away from Hell.
Nearly all sex and porn addicts lose control over our ability to not engage in sexual fantasies and behaviors. We try to quit or cut back, making promises to ourselves and others, but we repeatedly fail in these efforts. We say we won’t look at porn today, but then we do. We say we won’t log in to our hookup apps tonight, but then we do. We say we won’t cheat on our spouse again, but then we do. This is our loss of control. And it is the same loss of control that occurs with alcoholism, drug addiction, compulsive gambling, and other addictions.
Task for Today
Look at your life realistically and honestly and admit that in your active addiction you cannot control your sex life.