In this episode of Overcoming Betrayal and Addiction, Dr. Rob and Tami talk about how to give yourself realistic boundaries when you know your addiction is easy to access. They also talk about how addicts lie to therapists and how this can sometimes cloud the therapist’s judgment and their opinions on the betrayed spouse. But keep in mind, as the betrayed spouse you are not to blame for your spouse’s addiction and poor behavior. The responsibility is on him/her to own it, work through it, and maintain it.