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Men’s Sex Addiction 101

January 18 @ 11:00 am - 12:00 pm PST

Mon 18

Sex and Intimacy Issues

January 18 @ 5:00 pm - 6:00 pm PST

Tue 19

Partners “Old Lady Posse”

January 19 @ 8:30 am - 9:30 am PST

Blogs & Podcasts

Blogs

January 18, 2021

The Power of “Surrender” and “Acceptance”

Scott Brassart The first step in every 12-Step program reads: We admitted we were powerless over —that our...
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Blogs

January 15, 2021

Substance Abuse and the Brain

Dr. David Fawcett Mood-altering drugs affect several parts of our brain, most of which are connected via what is...
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Addicts

January 14, 2021

Q&A with Rob & Tami: My Addict’s Therapist Blames Me for His Wrongdoings!

In this episode of Sex, Love, and Addiction, Dr. Rob and Tami VerHelst explain in-depth what a betrayed spouse...
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Don’t miss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, a great book for spouses and partners of addicts.

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In an endeavour to pull myself from the mire, I accepted I needed help. As such, I scoured the internet until I came across Seeking Integrity and SexandRelationshipHealing.com. I was grateful to find so many helpful resources on one site. In particular, the webinars provide a great opportunity to interact and ask questions, and to receive an honest, constructive response.
— D.D., Australia
Dr. Rob validates partners in their relationship with an addict, helping partners find the truth of their situation, and to cut through the lies and excuses to find facts and reality. I know he feels the pain that partners go through because he displays the empathy we are looking for (but usually can't get from our addicted spouse). He has done a lot for my emotional well-being, giving me tools to identify red flags when they come up, and to recognize my partner's sincerity and sorrow.
— E.L., Betrayed Partner of a Sex Addict
I believe I can fight this addiction now, and I'm able to appreciate what's at stake. I can't express my gratitude enough. You have helped me to find integrity, and given me the tools to start living as a complete person again.
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center
Although the program of recovery is just starting for me, I gained the knowledge and experiences at SI:LA to gain victory over this disease. Most importantly, I know I cannot do it alone now!
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center
My experience with Sex and Relationship Healing and Seeking Integrity has been all about understanding and acceptance. When I first showed up, I was full of shame, denial, and depression. Dr. Rob, Dr. David, and the rest of the team have helped me learn about “rigorous” honesty, consequences, and the meaning of vulnerability.
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center
I really believe my time at Seeking Integrity has changed the trajectory of my life. You have provided me with invaluable help in how to make sense of my life and I feel so much better equipped to handle my challenges in the future.
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center
My experience with Seeking Integrity was about understanding and acceptance. When I first arrived I was full of shame, denial, and depression. Dr. Rob, Dr. David, and team helped me learn about “rigorous” honesty, consequences, and the meaning of vulnerability. ... I will always be grateful.
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center
Thank you so much for talking and listening to me today! I can't tell you how much better I feel after having someone listen and validate my experiences and everything I've been feeling. It was definitely useful and I feel a lot clearer on what to do going forward.
— Betrayed Partner, Individual Support Session
The therapists at the Seeking Integrity treatment center were all exceptional. I recently reconnected with one of them on a Zoom call and I felt a well of emotion, with powerful feelings and memories of the center all flooding back. My two weeks there was a life-changing time.
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center