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Transgender and Non-Binary People Discussion Group

May 16 @ 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm PDT

Sun 16

Prodependence Discussion Group for Betrayed Partners

May 16 @ 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm PDT

Sun 16

Men’s Sex/Porn Addiction Drop-In Group, with Jonah Anderson

May 16 @ 8:00 pm - 9:00 pm PDT

Blogs & Podcasts

Blogs

May 14, 2021

Grounding Techniques

Dr. David Fawcett Early recovery can be a volatile time marked by mood swings, strong triggers and cravings, intrusive...
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Addicts

May 12, 2021

Podcast, You Rebuild Trust Over Time By Taking Things Slow

In this episode of Overcoming Betrayal and Addiction, Dr. Rob and Tami talk about whether it makes sense for...
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Addicts

May 10, 2021

Covert Incest: When You Aren’t Your Mother’s Boyfriend, with Dr. Ken Adams

On May 13th, Seeking Integrity and our free resource website SexandRelationshipHealing.com are sponsoring a free webinar discussing covert/emotional incest and...
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Don’t miss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, a great book for spouses and partners of addicts.

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In an endeavour to pull myself from the mire, I accepted I needed help. As such, I scoured the internet until I came across Seeking Integrity and SexandRelationshipHealing.com. I was grateful to find so many helpful resources on one site. In particular, the webinars provide a great opportunity to interact and ask questions, and to receive an honest, constructive response.
— D.D., Australia
Dr. Rob validates partners in their relationship with an addict, helping partners find the truth of their situation, and to cut through the lies and excuses to find facts and reality. I know he feels the pain that partners go through because he displays the empathy we are looking for (but usually can't get from our addicted spouse). He has done a lot for my emotional well-being, giving me tools to identify red flags when they come up, and to recognize my partner's sincerity and sorrow.
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Although the program of recovery is just starting for me, I gained the knowledge and experiences at SI:LA to gain victory over this disease. Most importantly, I know I cannot do it alone now!
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center
My experience with Sex and Relationship Healing and Seeking Integrity has been all about understanding and acceptance. When I first showed up, I was full of shame, denial, and depression. Dr. Rob, Dr. David, and the rest of the team have helped me learn about “rigorous” honesty, consequences, and the meaning of vulnerability.
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center
I really believe my time at Seeking Integrity has changed the trajectory of my life. You have provided me with invaluable help in how to make sense of my life and I feel so much better equipped to handle my challenges in the future.
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center
My experience with Seeking Integrity was about understanding and acceptance. When I first arrived I was full of shame, denial, and depression. Dr. Rob, Dr. David, and team helped me learn about “rigorous” honesty, consequences, and the meaning of vulnerability. ... I will always be grateful.
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center
Thank you so much for talking and listening to me today! I can't tell you how much better I feel after having someone listen and validate my experiences and everything I've been feeling. It was definitely useful and I feel a lot clearer on what to do going forward.
— Betrayed Partner, Individual Support Session
The therapists at the Seeking Integrity treatment center were all exceptional. I recently reconnected with one of them on a Zoom call and I felt a well of emotion, with powerful feelings and memories of the center all flooding back. My two weeks there was a life-changing time.
— Alumni of Seeking Integrity Treatment Center