• Porn Addiction Can Ruin Real-World Sex
    Tuesday, March 25th, 2025

    Porn Addiction Can Ruin Real-World Sex

    What’s the point of being alive if you don’t at least try to do something remarkable? Research shows that approximately 1 in 4 male sex addicts struggles with sexual...
  • Here’s Wishing You a Long, Slow Recovery
    Monday, March 24th, 2025

    Here’s Wishing You a Long, Slow Recovery

    Sobriety is a long and winding path, and none of us ever really knows where it’s leading. One long-recovering sex addict loves to tell the story of his 90th...
  • Hooked on Porn?
    Sunday, March 23rd, 2025

    Hooked on Porn?

    The amount of porn on the internet is unmeasurable. In their book, A Billion Wicked Thoughts, researchers Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam write: “In 1991, the year the World...
  • Working Step 3
    Saturday, March 22nd, 2025

    Working Step 3

    Don’t wait for the right conditions. All that you need for growth is available to you in this moment. With Step 3, most sex and porn addicts prefer to...
  • Standard Issue Denial
    Friday, March 21st, 2025

    Standard Issue Denial

    Addicts would rather deny a hard truth than face it. The most common form of sex and porn addiction denial, used by almost every married or partnered addict, centers...
  • Triggers
    Thursday, March 20th, 2025

    Triggers

    Learn how to cope, sweet friend. There will always be dark days. Almost anything, items both internal and external, can be a trigger for sex and porn addiction. Internal...
  • We Hurt Our Kids, Too!
    Wednesday, March 19th, 2025

    We Hurt Our Kids, Too!

    Your eyes are unfathomable to me, hostile, even, as if you have removed yourself to a place where I cannot reach you—somewhere I cannot know. Kids can’t help but...
  • Understanding Sexual Sobriety
    Tuesday, March 18th, 2025

    Understanding Sexual Sobriety

    In recovery, the road narrows but the horizon widens. In sexual recovery, the definition of and boundaries for sobriety are determined based on each addict’s unique history and goals....
  • Honesty in 12-Step Meetings
    Monday, March 17th, 2025

    Honesty in 12-Step Meetings

    You can’t save your face and your ass at the same time. Many recovering sex and porn addicts worry that if they go to a 12-step meeting and tell...