Trust can take years to build, but only a moment to break. When our partners first learn about our infidelity and addiction, they are nearly always emotionally traumatized. Even...
Sex and porn addiction are just as real and just as devastating as every other addiction. Today, most people readily understand the concept of substance addiction. If they are...
Guilt and remorse tell us that we should do things differently next time. After we act out sexually, we often feel guilt, remorse, and regret about our behaviors. We...
Early recovery can feel hollow. The space we previously filled with addictive substances and behaviors, once emptied, is just empty. And it takes a long time to refill it...
Addicts are experts at creating ‘justifiable reasons’ for their actions. Rudyard Kipling once (jokingly) wrote, “I never made a mistake in my life; at least, never one that I...
Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much. Sex and porn addicts nearly always require outside assistance to recover. If we could change things on...