Friday, January 24th, 2020
Asking for Help
It’s not the load that breaks you, it’s trying to carry the entire thing all by yourself. When we are triggered toward our addiction, the most effective way to...
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Thursday, January 23rd, 2020Addiction Creates Chaos
I am amazed at how many of my problems – most of which had nothing to do with my addiction, I thought – have become manageable or simply disappeared...Read More -
Wednesday, January 22nd, 2020Sharing Your Step One Inventories
Letting go of secrets gives you the freedom to move forward with a different, better life. For most recovering sex and porn addicts, creating powerlessness and unmanageability inventories is...Read More -
Tuesday, January 21st, 2020How Do We Best Define Cheating?
Infidelity is the most piercing of betrayals. When we are active in our sex or porn addiction, our definition of infidelity likely does not match our partner’s definition. We...Read More -
Sunday, January 19th, 2020Recognizing the Virtue of Adversity
You must never limit your challenges. Instead, you must challenge your limits. Sometimes recovering addicts are happy just getting by. We’re sober for now, semi-comfortable, paying the bills, and...Read More -
Saturday, January 18th, 2020Sex vs. Love vs. Affection
Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex. Sex and porn addicts share certain characteristics. One of these common traits is that we are unable...Read More -
Friday, January 17th, 2020Tolerance and Escalation
Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of your addiction. Addicts of all types typically experience an increasing tolerance to the...Read More -
Thursday, January 16th, 2020The Importance of Twelve-Step Groups
Recovering sex and porn addicts must attend only two types of 12-Step meetings: the ones they want to go to, and the ones they don’t want to go to....Read More
