Monday, December 2nd, 2024
We Need a Pack to Recover
There is an undeniable strength in numbers. Human beings are meant to work together, not to go it alone. For evidence, think back to prehistoric times when people lived...
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Sunday, December 1st, 2024Dealing With Slips/Relapses
Falling down is how we learn and grow. Staying down is how we die. In sex and porn addiction recovery, slips and relapse are relatively common, and they are... -
Saturday, November 30th, 2024Masturbation as a Healthy Behavior?
For some sex and porn addicts, masturbation is the only sex they ever have with a person they care about. Comedienne Lily Tomlin famously said, “We have reason to... -
Friday, November 29th, 2024Taking the Next Right Step
At this moment, I am the right person, in the right place, at the right time. Some days we wake up on the wrong side of the bed. For... -
Thursday, November 28th, 2024Sexual Integrity
Every life crisis presents an opportunity, however painful, for personal growth. A primary goal for most recovering sex and porn addicts is developing sexual integrity. When defining what sexual... -
Wednesday, November 27th, 2024Shame: The Wisdom of Sirius Black
Shame thrives in darkness, but withers in sunlight. In Harry Potter: The Order of the Phoenix, Harry fears the darkness with himself. When he shares this with his godfather,... -
Tuesday, November 26th, 2024Sex and Porn Addiction and Denial
Delay is the deadliest form of denial. As sex and porn addicts, we rationalize, minimize, and justify our sexual adventures, blaming everyone and everything but ourselves for our actions... -
Monday, November 25th, 2024Going to Therapy Isn’t Enough
Accepting help does not mean you’ve failed; it means you’re no longer in it alone. Typically, healing from sex and porn addiction presents challenges that can’t be dealt with... -
Sunday, November 24th, 2024Step 11 is a Unique and Personal Journey
Search, no matter what situation you are in. There is no right or wrong way to work Step 11. In fact, there are as many ways to work Step...