• Anonymity and 12-Step Meetings
    Tuesday, May 17th, 2022

    Anonymity and 12-Step Meetings

    The fears we don’t face become our limits. Sometimes, especially when we are new to recovery, we resist the idea of participating in 12-step sexual recovery groups. Usually, we’re...
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  • Recognizing Sex and Porn Addiction
    Monday, May 16th, 2022

    Recognizing Sex and Porn Addiction

    Sobriety costs nothing. Addiction taxes the soul. The core signs and symptoms of sex and porn addiction are the same regardless of age, race, gender, social history, and psychological...
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  • Working Step 5
    Sunday, May 15th, 2022

    Working Step 5

    Lies and secrets are cancer to the soul. They eat away what is good and leave only carnage behind. Plenty of recovering sex and porn addicts tell themselves that...
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  • Love Addiction vs. Sex Addiction
    Saturday, May 14th, 2022

    Love Addiction vs. Sex Addiction

    Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping-stones to success. Love addicts use romantic fantasy and the intense neurochemical rush caused by being ‘deeply in love’ to achieve...
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  • Accepting Life on Life’s Terms
    Friday, May 13th, 2022

    Accepting Life on Life’s Terms

    The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance. The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous has a passage that states, “Acceptance is the answer to all...
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  • Entitlement
    Thursday, May 12th, 2022


    When we feel entitled to something, we’ll step all over someone else to get it. As sex and porn addicts, we often feel entitled to act out. We convince...
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  • The Hawthorne Effect
    Wednesday, May 11th, 2022

    The Hawthorne Effect

    Accountability breeds success. Have you ever been jogging or riding your bike and you thought you were doing great and then someone passed you? If so, what did you...
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  • Developing Obstacle Immunity
    Tuesday, May 10th, 2022

    Developing Obstacle Immunity

    Obstacles do not block the path. They are the path. Life constantly presents difficulties—financial challenges, injury, illness, flat tires, tornadoes, and all sorts of other crazy and totally unexpected...
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  • The ‘G’ Word
    Monday, May 9th, 2022

    The ‘G’ Word

    The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing. Some recovering sex and porn addicts, especially those new to recovery, can get turned off by other addicts’ use...
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