• HALT: A Tool for Sobriety
    Friday, September 13th, 2024

    HALT: A Tool for Sobriety

    If you don’t have self-awareness, then no matter how smart you are, you aren’t going to get very far. HALT is an acronym for Hungry, Angry (or Anxious), Lonely,...
  • Consequences
    Thursday, September 12th, 2024

    Consequences

    What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. The core signs and symptoms of sexual addiction are generally the...
  • Understanding the ‘Anticipatory High’
    Wednesday, September 11th, 2024

    Understanding the ‘Anticipatory High’

    Emotional escape, no matter how it is induced, is the goal with all addictions. The high of sex and porn addiction comes from fantasy and anticipation more than actual...
  • Do You Struggle with Gratitude?
    Monday, September 9th, 2024

    Do You Struggle with Gratitude?

    Even the worst parts of your life have contributed to your growth, so you can be grateful even for those moments. When we first embark on the process of...
  • Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life
    Sunday, September 8th, 2024

    Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life

    Life is 10% what happens to us, and 90% how we choose to think about it. Gandhi once said, “A man is but the product of his thoughts. What...
  • Sex and Porn Addiction Are Not Driven by Drug Use
    Saturday, September 7th, 2024

    Sex and Porn Addiction Are Not Driven by Drug Use

    Happiness is where we find it, but rarely where we seek it. Sometimes drug users, particularly those who abuse cocaine, methamphetamine, and other stimulant/party drugs, can become hypersexual when...
  • Did You Gaslight a Loved One?
    Friday, September 6th, 2024

    Did You Gaslight a Loved One?

    Gaslighting is used to shift the blame for bad behavior onto the person who is being victimized. Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse that involves the presentation of...
  • Going to 12-Step Sexual Recovery Meetings
    Thursday, September 5th, 2024

    Going to 12-Step Sexual Recovery Meetings

    I build today the road that I travel tomorrow. Active sex and porn addiction is all about living in the problem. Recovery is all about living in the solution....