• Love Addiction: It’s Not Just for Women
    Thursday, November 14th, 2019

    Love Addiction: It’s Not Just for Women

    It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see. In general, there are more self-identified female love addicts than male love addicts. Nevertheless, males are perfectly...
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  • Vulnerability: High-Risk, High Reward
    Tuesday, November 12th, 2019

    Vulnerability: High-Risk, High Reward

    To overcome our fears about attachment, we must face our fears and become attached. Sex and porn addicts share certain characteristics. One of these common traits is that we...
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  • The Stuckness of Addiction
    Monday, November 11th, 2019

    The Stuckness of Addiction

    Before you can break out of prison, you must realize you are locked up. Addictions are not about pleasure. Instead, they’re about the secondary gain of escape. Non-addicts drink,...
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  • Step Eleven: Finding Your Spiritual Path
    Sunday, November 10th, 2019

    Step Eleven: Finding Your Spiritual Path

    The universe has shaken you to awaken you. If you’ve diligently worked the first ten steps and find yourself still at odds with the spiritual nature of recovery, especially...
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  • The Aftermath of Acting Out
    Friday, November 8th, 2019

    The Aftermath of Acting Out

    As addicts, we’re not in denial. We’re just selective about the reality we accept. After we sexually act out, we attempt to distance ourselves emotionally from what we’ve just...
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  • Trying (and Failing) to Quit
    Thursday, November 7th, 2019

    Trying (and Failing) to Quit

    If a man can control his mind, he can find the way to enlightenment, and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him. As sex and porn addicts,...
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  • Using Recovery Literature
    Wednesday, November 6th, 2019

    Using Recovery Literature

    We read to know we’re not alone. Reading literature about sex and porn addiction is like having a portable program. Books and pamphlets written to help us in our...
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