• Women Can Be Sexually Addicted, Too
    Thursday, April 3rd, 2025

    Women Can Be Sexually Addicted, Too

    Viewing genders differently puts women not on a pedestal, but in a cage. Many people think that sex and porn addiction are adult male disorders and that women are...
  • Spiritual Fitness
    Wednesday, April 2nd, 2025

    Spiritual Fitness

    Don’t look at or judge your past too harshly. You don’t live there anymore. The road of spiritual fitness narrows over time. Behaviors that seemed perfectly OK while active...
  • Working Step 4
    Tuesday, April 1st, 2025

    Working Step 4

    We don’t learn by doing, we learn by reflecting on what we’ve done. For many recovering sex and porn addicts, Step 4 is a huge sticking point. The idea...
  • Withdrawal
    Monday, March 31st, 2025

    Withdrawal

    When things go wrong, don’t go with them. The core signs and symptoms of sex and porn addiction are generally the same regardless of age, race, gender, social history,...
  • Are You Struggling With the Steps?
    Sunday, March 30th, 2025

    Are You Struggling With the Steps?

    There is no illusion greater than fear. The 12 steps can seem a bit daunting. Sure, when we go to our first sexual recovery meeting and read the steps...
  • Working Step 3
    Saturday, March 29th, 2025

    Working Step 3

    Your true self is a boundless spiritual being. You are spirit in body. Step 3 reads: “Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the...
  • I Thought I Was the Only One
    Friday, March 28th, 2025

    I Thought I Was the Only One

    Reaching out to others can be profoundly healing. Sex and porn addiction can harm our sense of reality, interfere with healthy relationships, and force us into social isolation. One...
  • The Hole in the Soul
    Thursday, March 27th, 2025

    The Hole in the Soul

    Addictions are an attempt to externally fill an internal void. Sex and porn addicts share certain characteristics. One of these common traits is that even when we got the...
  • Bookending Keeps Us Sober
    Wednesday, March 26th, 2025

    Bookending Keeps Us Sober

    When I’m at the bottom looking up, the main question may not be, “How do I get out of this hole?” In reality, the main question might be, “How...