• Is Using Porn OK in Your Relationship?
    Tuesday, February 27th, 2024

    Is Using Porn OK in Your Relationship?

    Dr. Robert Weiss In a previous post, I presented my 21st century, digital-age definition of infidelity, stating: Infidelity is the breaking of trust that occurs when you keep intimate,...
  • The Pain Field
    Friday, February 23rd, 2024

    The Pain Field

    The Pain Field Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D., LPC, C-CSAS “I know what I am supposed to do, but I never seem to be able to get it right,” said Roy, whose...
  • Addicts and the Loss of Empathy
    Tuesday, February 20th, 2024

    Addicts and the Loss of Empathy

    Erin Snow The ability to understand the feelings of another person is a remarkable quality that enables us to form deep connections and bond with others. We are literally...
  • What Is “Conditioned” Porn Addiction?
    Tuesday, February 13th, 2024

    What Is “Conditioned” Porn Addiction?

    Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT Conditioned porn addicts are new and rapidly emerging subcategory of problematic porn users. These addicts differ from traditional trauma-driven porn addicts in two significant...
  • Moving from Porn Sex to Healthy Sex
    Tuesday, February 6th, 2024

    Moving from Porn Sex to Healthy Sex

    Moving from Porn Sex to Healthy Sex Scott Brassart To develop healthy sexuality, problematic porn users must first: Identify and change their sexual behavior patterns (their cycle of porn...
  • The Difference Between Noticing and Objectifying
    Thursday, February 1st, 2024

    The Difference Between Noticing and Objectifying

    The Difference Between Noticing and Objectifying Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D., LPC, C-CSAS The following definitions come from the Merriam-Webster Dictionary. Notice: To become aware of (something or someone). Objectify: To...
  • Developing Empathy for Your Betrayed Partner
    Tuesday, January 30th, 2024

    Developing Empathy for Your Betrayed Partner

    Erin Snow In his book, Out of the Doghouse, my colleague Dr. Rob Weiss lists eight specific things that men who’ve engaged in sexual infidelity can do to help...
  • Dealing with Slips and Relapse
    Tuesday, January 23rd, 2024

    Dealing with Slips and Relapse

    Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT Unfortunately, slips and relapses are common in those who are recovering from sex, porn, and substance/sex addiction. This does not mean that it is...
  • Guilt, Shame, and Negative Self-Image
    Tuesday, January 16th, 2024

    Guilt, Shame, and Negative Self-Image

    Erin Snow As occurs with all addictions, sex and porn addicts experience a great deal of both guilt and shame about their behavior. Unfortunately, a lot of people think...