Tag Archives: addiction

  • Compulsion or Addiction?
    Monday, November 18th, 2024

    Compulsion or Addiction?

    The anticipation of pleasure drives sex and porn addiction. Pleasure is the ‘carrot on a stick’ that keeps us trudging forward. Sometimes it seems like absolutely anything, be it...
  • The Stuckness of Addiction
    Monday, November 11th, 2024

    The Stuckness of Addiction

    Before you can break out of prison, you must realize you are locked up. Addictions are not about pleasure. Instead, they’re about the secondary gain of escape. Non-addicts drink,...
  • Using Recovery Literature
    Wednesday, November 6th, 2024

    Using Recovery Literature

    We read to know we’re not alone. Reading literature about sex and porn addiction is like having a portable program. Books and pamphlets written to help us in our...
  • Do Sex and Porn Addicts Experience Withdrawal?
    Saturday, November 2nd, 2024

    Do Sex and Porn Addicts Experience Withdrawal?

    When it is dark enough, you can see the stars. It is common knowledge that alcoholics and drug addicts, when they suddenly go ‘cold turkey,’ sometimes experience withdrawal—delirium tremens,...
  • Addiction is a Lonely Business
    Saturday, October 5th, 2024

    Addiction is a Lonely Business

    Turn your face to the sun and the shadows fall behind you. As active addicts, we tend to choose addictive substances and behaviors rather than other people as a...
  • Incremental Improvement
    Monday, September 2nd, 2024

    Incremental Improvement

    A river cuts through a rock not because of its power, but because of its persistence. As Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu says, “The journey of a thousand miles begins...
  • The Neurobiology of Addiction
    Wednesday, August 7th, 2024

    The Neurobiology of Addiction

    The only significant difference between substance addiction and sex/porn addiction is that substance addicts ingest alcohol or drugs to create an emotionally escapist neurochemical reaction, whereas sex/porn addicts rely...
  • The Desperation of Sex and Porn Addiction
    Saturday, August 3rd, 2024

    The Desperation of Sex and Porn Addiction

    Addiction is a half-suicide where you slowly kill your soul with a poisonous substance or behavior. Sex and porn addicts share certain characteristics. One of these common traits is...