Author Archives: Scott Brassart

  • Working Step 4
    Tuesday, April 23rd, 2024

    Working Step 4

    Self-reflection helps you steer your thoughts, emotions, and feelings in a healthy direction. Creating our Step 4 inventories can be a miserable endeavor. Basically, we’re dredging up the worst...
  • Understanding Secondary Addictions
    Tuesday, April 23rd, 2024

    Understanding Secondary Addictions

    Understanding Secondary Addictions Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT Secondary addictions are common among both substance addicts and sex/porn addicts (and other types of addicts, too). Generally speaking, there are...
  • The Voices in Our Head Aren’t Always Bad
    Monday, April 22nd, 2024

    The Voices in Our Head Aren’t Always Bad

    Nothing on earth can stop the man with the right mental attitude. Nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude. As recovering sex and porn...
  • How Many 12-Step Meetings Until I’m Cured?
    Sunday, April 21st, 2024

    How Many 12-Step Meetings Until I’m Cured?

    The question is not how to get cured, but how to live. One common misconception about professional treatment for sex and porn addiction is that after completing the recommended...
  • The Sexnology Factor
    Saturday, April 20th, 2024

    The Sexnology Factor

    Don’t let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do. Nearly everyone in modern Western culture either owns or has easy access to a computer, laptop, tablet,...
  • Sex and Porn Addiction Are Not Fun
    Friday, April 19th, 2024

    Sex and Porn Addiction Are Not Fun

    Lots of people joke about sex addiction, saying, “Where do I sign up?” Those people don’t understand what it’s like to be a sex addict. Many people view sex...
  • Becoming Vulnerable
    Thursday, April 18th, 2024

    Becoming Vulnerable

    You are worthy of love and intimate connection. Becoming vulnerable means trusting both ourselves and others. It is the only way to live honestly, with integrity and authenticity. When...
  • Working Step 4
    Wednesday, April 17th, 2024

    Working Step 4

    The greatest of faults is to be conscious of none. As it is with all of the 12 steps, there is no set way to work the fourth step....
  • Stop Saying “I Can’t”
    Tuesday, April 16th, 2024

    Stop Saying “I Can’t”

    Challenges test our courage and our ability to change. In both our lives and our recovery, it is counterproductive to look at something daunting and say, “No way, I’ll...