Author Archives: Scott Brassart

  • Sexual Integrity
    Sunday, September 29th, 2024

    Sexual Integrity

    Try not to become a person of success, but a person of integrity. A primary goal for most recovering sex and porn addicts is developing what Dr. Rob Weiss...
  • Sexual Sobriety vs. Sexual Abstinence
    Saturday, September 28th, 2024

    Sexual Sobriety vs. Sexual Abstinence

    The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely. Sex and porn addicts in the early stages of recovery typically have little to no idea what the term ‘sexual...
  • Overcoming the Shame of Porn Addiction
    Friday, September 27th, 2024

    Overcoming the Shame of Porn Addiction

    A moment of self-compassion can change your entire day. A string of such moments can change the course of your life. Porn addicts are often reluctant to seek help....
  • Get Gritty
    Thursday, September 26th, 2024

    Get Gritty

    Over time, grit is what separates fruitful lives from aimlessness. Research shows that when kids are praised for being hard workers, they do better than kids who are praised...
  • Sex and Porn Addiction Are Not Fun
    Wednesday, September 25th, 2024

    Sex and Porn Addiction Are Not Fun

    If you need an analogy for addiction, imagine living without air. Then imagine something worse. When we say the words sex addiction to non-addicted people, the kneejerk response is...
  • Step Nine: The Promises of Recovery
    Tuesday, September 24th, 2024

    Step Nine: The Promises of Recovery

    Your past cannot be changed, but your future can. For many recovering addicts, Step 9 is a key step on the road to lasting recovery and a life changed...
  • Why is My Partner So Angry?
    Monday, September 23rd, 2024

    Why is My Partner So Angry?

    It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend. As recovering sex and porn addicts, we often wonder why our partner is so angry and so...
  • Working the Twelve Steps
    Sunday, September 22nd, 2024

    Working the Twelve Steps

    You didn’t come this far to only come this far. There is no right or wrong way to work the 12 Steps. There are as many ways to work...