• 23 Tools for Sobriety
    Tuesday, August 12th, 2025

    23 Tools for Sobriety

    Scott Brassart During my 20-plus years in recovery from substance and sex/porn addiction, I have developed a varied and useful sobriety toolkit. More so than I realized. In fact,...
  • Understanding the Trauma of Intimate Betrayal
    Tuesday, August 5th, 2025

    Understanding the Trauma of Intimate Betrayal

    Erin Snow If you’ve been cheated on and now you feel like you’re going crazy, you’re not alone. When your partner’s infidelity is uncovered, you can’t help but experience...
  • Setting Healthy Boundaries as Part of Recovery
    Tuesday, July 29th, 2025

    Setting Healthy Boundaries as Part of Recovery

    Scott Brassart When I entered recovery, I thought I had boundaries. I was wrong. What I had was a set of very thick, very tall, barbed wire topped walls....
  • Sexualizing Our Feelings
    Tuesday, July 22nd, 2025

    Sexualizing Our Feelings

    Erin Snow Sexualization occurs when we assign a sexual character or quality to someone or something other than ourselves. Usually, it’s another person that we’re sexualizing. Instead of seeing...
  • Two Types of Porn Addicts
    Tuesday, July 15th, 2025

    Two Types of Porn Addicts

    Robert Weiss PhD, LCSW, CSAT For many years, clinicians working with porn addicts found that most of their clients reported underlying early-life trauma – physical abuse, sexual abuse, neglect,...
  • Using “So What?” as a Tool of Recovery
    Tuesday, July 8th, 2025

    Using “So What?” as a Tool of Recovery

    Scott Brassart In recovery, no matter how well we plan and prepare, life happens. We constantly encounter challenges and obstacles. Some days it seems like one darn thing after...
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