The easiest way to find Heaven is to slowly back away from Hell.

The core signs and symptoms of sexual addiction are generally the same regardless of age, race, gender, social history, and psychological underpinnings. For instance, nearly all sex addicts lose control over their ability to not engage in sexual fantasies and behaviors. We try to quit or cut back, making promises to ourselves and others, but we repeatedly fail in these efforts. We say we won’t look at porn today, but then we do. We say we won’t log in to our hookup apps tonight, but then we do. We say we won’t cheat on our spouse again, but then we do. This is our loss of control.

Just for Today
Look at your life realistically and honestly, and admit that in your active addiction, you cannot control your sex life.