Tag Archives: 12 Steps

  • Working Step 2
    Saturday, February 1st, 2025

    Working Step 2

    As sex and porn addicts, we fool ourselves into believing we don’t need help. Thoroughly working Step 2—coming to believe that a power greater than ourselves will restore us...
  • Sharing Your Step One Inventories
    Wednesday, January 22nd, 2025

    Sharing Your Step One Inventories

    Letting go of secrets gives you the freedom to move forward with a different, better life. For most recovering sex and porn addicts, creating powerlessness and unmanageability inventories is...
  • Working Step One: The Unmanageability Inventory
    Wednesday, January 15th, 2025

    Working Step One: The Unmanageability Inventory

    Without reflection, we go blindly on our way, creating more consequences and failing to understand that we, not others, are at fault. One way to measure the unmanageability of...
  • Working Step One: The Powerlessness Inventory
    Wednesday, January 8th, 2025

    Working Step One: The Powerlessness Inventory

    Step 1 reinforces our ‘moment of clarity,’ cementing our desire for recovery. Being powerless means we have lost control over our sexual behaviors. We engage in these behaviors compulsively,...
  • The Need to Work Step One
    Wednesday, January 1st, 2025

    The Need to Work Step One

    The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. In 12-Step sexual recovery meetings, we often hear discussion about ‘hitting bottom’ and the resultant ‘moment of clarity’...
  • Step 12: Living the Principles
    Saturday, December 28th, 2024

    Step 12: Living the Principles

    With integrity, you do the right thing, so you have no guilt or shame about your actions. The work of Step 12 can be broken down into two parts:...
  • Step 12: Assess for the Spiritual Awakening
    Wednesday, December 4th, 2024

    Step 12: Assess for the Spiritual Awakening

    By doubting, we come to the question. By seeking, we come to the truth. Step 12 says, “Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we...
  • Step 11 is a Unique and Personal Journey
    Sunday, November 24th, 2024

    Step 11 is a Unique and Personal Journey

    Search, no matter what situation you are in. There is no right or wrong way to work Step 11. In fact, there are as many ways to work Step...