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All daily inspirations can be found in the book Sex and Porn Addiction Healing and Recovery. Used here with permission of the author. Click the book cover image to purchase the book on Amazon.

If nothing changes, nothing changes.

When the road gets difficult, we can embrace the challenge and think about it as a chance to make ourselves and the world a better place. Or we can look around for someone else to blame. “If so and so hadn’t done such and such, I wouldn’t have relapsed.” Pointing fingers in that way is human nature, but it gets us nowhere fast. Instead of blaming someone else for our problems, maybe we should try something different – accepting the situation as it is and figuring out a plan for moving forward in a successful and productive way. If we don’t take this new and more difficult approach, nothing gets fixed, and nothing gets better.

Task for Today
When things go awry, ask: “How can I fix this?” And then do it.