Tag Archives: integrity

  • Sexual Integrity
    Friday, June 7th, 2019

    Sexual Integrity

    Try not to become a person of success, but a person of integrity.   A primary goal for most recovering sex addicts is developing what Dr. Rob Weiss refers...
  • The Damage Done
    Monday, May 13th, 2019

    The Damage Done

    Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Typically, it’s not any specific sexual or romantic act that causes the most...
  • Sexual Integrity
    Sunday, May 5th, 2019

    Sexual Integrity

    Integrity is the essence of everything successful. A primary goal for most recovering sex addicts is developing what noted sex addiction therapist Dr. Rob Weiss refers to as sexual...
  • Is Sexual Recovery Worth It?
    Wednesday, April 24th, 2019

    Is Sexual Recovery Worth It?

    Scars represent not injury, but healing. Scars are what make us whole again. Healing from sexual addiction brings self-knowledge, integrity, and a desire to become vulnerable (to be known...
  • Working Step Four
    Wednesday, April 17th, 2019

    Working Step Four

    The greatest of faults is to be conscious of none. As it is with all of the twelve steps, there is no set way to work Step Four. If...
  • Loving the Word “No”
    Saturday, April 13th, 2019

    Loving the Word “No”

    Learning to say no expands our ability to say yes and mean it. Most of us are taught from a young age to “people please.” This means we’re supposed...
  • Sex Addiction is Not an Excuse for Bad Behavior
    Thursday, March 7th, 2019

    Sex Addiction is Not an Excuse for Bad Behavior

    Under no circumstances are sex addicts absolved of responsibility for the problems their choices have caused. Sometimes people who get caught engaging in an embarrassing, objectionable, or even illegal...
  • My Sobriety is Not Your Sobriety
    Wednesday, January 23rd, 2019

    My Sobriety is Not Your Sobriety

    Sex addicts don’t have to be married or monogamous to be sexually sober.  Long-term monogamy may be the goal for some (maybe even most) recovering sex and porn addicts,...