• Love the Process of Recovery
    Friday, April 5th, 2024

    Love the Process of Recovery

    It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end. Any distance runner can tell you that the real...
  • Relationships in Sexual Recovery
    Thursday, April 4th, 2024

    Relationships in Sexual Recovery

    When we open our hearts, our lives get better. Addictions, especially sex and porn addiction, wreak havoc on relationships. Recovery can remedy this. When we begin recovery, if we...
  • Women Can Be Sexually Addicted, Too
    Wednesday, April 3rd, 2024

    Women Can Be Sexually Addicted, Too

    Viewing genders differently puts women not on a pedestal, but in a cage. Many people think that sex and porn addiction are adult male disorders and that women are...
  • Spiritual Fitness
    Tuesday, April 2nd, 2024

    Spiritual Fitness

    Don’t look at or judge your past too harshly. You don’t live there anymore. The road of spiritual fitness narrows over time. Behaviors that seemed perfectly OK while active...
  • Working Step 4
    Monday, April 1st, 2024

    Working Step 4

    We don’t learn by doing, we learn by reflecting on what we’ve done. For many recovering sex and porn addicts, Step 4 is a huge sticking point. The idea...
  • Withdrawal
    Sunday, March 31st, 2024

    Withdrawal

    When things go wrong, don’t go with them. The core signs and symptoms of sex and porn addiction are generally the same regardless of age, race, gender, social history,...
  • Are You Struggling With the Steps?
    Saturday, March 30th, 2024

    Are You Struggling With the Steps?

    There is no illusion greater than fear. The 12 steps can seem a bit daunting. Sure, when we go to our first sexual recovery meeting and read the steps...
  • Working Step 3
    Friday, March 29th, 2024

    Working Step 3

    Your true self is a boundless spiritual being. You are spirit in body. Step 3 reads: “Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the...
  • I Thought I Was the Only One
    Thursday, March 28th, 2024

    I Thought I Was the Only One

    Reaching out to others can be profoundly healing. Sex and porn addiction can harm our sense of reality, interfere with healthy relationships, and force us into social isolation. One...