Friday, October 12th, 2018
Creating a Sexual Sobriety Plan
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Many sex addicts new to the healing process openly wonder: “If sexual sobriety doesn’t require lasting sexual abstinence, what does it...
Tag Archives: Sexual Boundary Plans
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Sunday, August 5th, 2018Your Sexual Boundary Plan: Consideration for Others
Sex addicts don’t recover in a vacuum. If we’re creating our sexual boundary plan while single, we should do so knowing that we may feel a need to revise... -
Tuesday, July 31st, 2018Sexual Boundary Plans: Making Revisions
Recovering sex addicts must be willing to change with the times. With each new form of technology (especially digital technology), the sexual and romantic landscape changes. As recovering sex... -
Saturday, July 21st, 2018Your Sexual Boundary Plan: The Need for Honesty
For sex addicts, it takes incredible strength and courage to admit the truth. Creating an effective sexual boundary plan requires brutal honesty on the part of not just the... -
Saturday, June 16th, 2018Sexual Boundary Plans Need to Be Clear
When people will not weed their own minds, they are apt to be overrun by nettles. Sexual boundary plans are created to define sexual sobriety and to provide recovering... -
Friday, April 6th, 2018Carry Your Boundary Plan
The path of recovery has many twists. It is wise to carry a map. Sexual boundary plans are created for a variety of reasons: helping addicts to understand the... -
Wednesday, April 4th, 2018
Masturbation as a Healthy Behavior?
For some sex addicts, masturbation is the only sex they ever have with a person they care about. Comedienne Lily Tomlin famously said, “We have reason to believe that... -
Saturday, March 31st, 2018Sexual Boundary Plans: Necessary Adjustments
Sexual boundary plans, once formulated, are not set in stone. Most recovering sex addicts spend a few months or a few years with a specific set of guidelines for...