Thursday, October 31st, 2019
The Damage Done
Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Typically, it’s not any specific sexual or romantic act that causes the most...
Tag Archives: secrets
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Monday, September 30th, 2019Liar, Liar
I could conceive death, but I could not conceive betrayal. For many active sex and porn addicts, the immediate and best solution to a loss of relationship trust is... -
Wednesday, September 18th, 2019Sex and Porn Addiction and Secrecy
If you want to keep a secret, you must also hide it from yourself. As active sex and porn addicts, we organized our entire lives around sexual fantasy and... -
Sunday, January 27th, 2019Sex Addiction and Secrecy
If you want to keep a secret, you must also hide it from yourself. When we are active in our sexual addiction, we organize our entire lives around sexual... -
Saturday, February 10th, 2018The Desire for Escape
Closing your eyes and plugging your ears won’t fix anything. Sex addicts use sexual fantasy and behavior to numb out and not feel emotional discomfort. They do this regardless... -
Thursday, February 8th, 2018Sex Addiction and Secrecy
If you want to keep a secret, you must also hide it from yourself. Sexually addictive behaviors often escalate to the point where addicts violate their inner values and...