Tag Archives: Sexual Boundary Plans

  • Creating a Sexual Sobriety Plan
    Friday, April 12th, 2019

    Creating a Sexual Sobriety Plan

    When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Many sex addicts new to the healing process openly wonder: “If sexual sobriety doesn’t require lasting sexual abstinence, what does it...
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  • Understanding Sexual Sobriety
    Sunday, March 17th, 2019

    Understanding Sexual Sobriety

    In recovery, the road narrows, but the horizon widens. In sexual recovery, the definition of and boundaries for sexual sobriety are determined based on each addict’s unique history and...
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  • Sexual Boundary Plans Need to Be Clear
    Saturday, February 9th, 2019

    Sexual Boundary Plans Need to Be Clear

    When people will not weed their own minds, they are apt to be overrun by nettles. Sexual boundary plans are created to define sexual sobriety and to provide recovering...
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  • Masturbation in Sexual Recovery
    Saturday, February 2nd, 2019

    Masturbation in Sexual Recovery

    Some (but not all) sex and porn addicts have a pathological relationship with masturbation. When constructing a sexual boundary plan, one potentially problematic gray area is masturbation. For addicts...
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  • My Sobriety is Not Your Sobriety
    Wednesday, January 23rd, 2019

    My Sobriety is Not Your Sobriety

    Sex addicts don’t have to be married or monogamous to be sexually sober.  Long-term monogamy may be the goal for some (maybe even most) recovering sex and porn addicts,...
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