• Does Technology Fuel Your Addiction?
    Wednesday, August 20th, 2025

    Does Technology Fuel Your Addiction?

    Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone. As both scientific research and anyone who’s been in 12-step sexual recovery meetings for more...
  • Sexual Attraction in a Recovery Setting
    Tuesday, August 19th, 2025

    Sexual Attraction in a Recovery Setting

    To overcome, one must stay focused on the goal and outcome, not the momentary distractions. Unsurprisingly, many sex and porn addicts new to treatment and recovery find themselves sexually...
  • Climb the Mountain
    Monday, August 18th, 2025

    Climb the Mountain

    The greater the obstacle, the more glory there is in overcoming it. In a lot of ways, life is a mountain. It’s big, it’s beautiful, and it’s got all...
  • Why We Use Sex and Porn Addictively
    Sunday, August 17th, 2025

    Why We Use Sex and Porn Addictively

    Addiction helps us imagine that we have some kind of mastery over life’s difficulties. Sex and porn addicts share certain characteristics. One of these common traits is that we...
  • Using the Three-Second Rule
    Saturday, August 16th, 2025

    Using the Three-Second Rule

    A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes. As recovering sex and porn addicts, we are not in control of the thoughts that...
  • Step Eight: Examining Your Feelings
    Friday, August 15th, 2025

    Step Eight: Examining Your Feelings

    Genuine kindness does not have ulterior motives. After we’ve created our Step 8 amends list, writing down who we’ve harmed and how, we must examine our current feelings about...
  • Early Sobriety Can Be Uncomfortable
    Wednesday, August 13th, 2025

    Early Sobriety Can Be Uncomfortable

    Every flower must grow through dirt. Most sex and porn addicts experience extreme emotional discomfort in early sobriety. And why would we not? After all, addictive sexuality has been...
  • Willful Ignorance
    Tuesday, August 12th, 2025

    Willful Ignorance

    We’re not in denial. We’re just selective about the reality we accept. For some of us, denial is so deep and so powerful that we somehow manage to stay...
  • Addiction Destroys Daily Life
    Monday, August 11th, 2025

    Addiction Destroys Daily Life

    The cycle of addiction is a downward spiral. It’s like flushing our lives down the toilet. Sex and porn addicts share certain characteristics. One of these common traits is...