Friday, January 31st, 2025
The Power of Sexual Fantasy
Lost for now is not the same thing as lost forever. We can find our way back. As sex and porn addicts, our primary coping mechanism for any and...
Tag Archives: sexual sobriety
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Tuesday, January 28th, 2025Sexual Sobriety Plans Need to Be Clear
When people will not weed their own minds, they are apt to be overrun by nettles. Sexual sobriety plans, also known as circle plans and boundary plans, are created... -
Sunday, January 5th, 2025What is ‘Sexual Sobriety’?
The ultimate goal of sexual recovery is learning to be sexual in healthy, life-affirming ways. People not familiar with sex and porn addiction often think that sexual sobriety, like... -
Tuesday, December 3rd, 2024Addicts: Six Tips for Holiday Survival
Addicts: Six Tips for Holiday Survival Scott Brassart For addicts, the holidays can be incredibly stressful. Thanks to social messaging (movies, TV, commercials, etc.) we feel like we need... -
Saturday, November 30th, 2024Masturbation as a Healthy Behavior?
For some sex and porn addicts, masturbation is the only sex they ever have with a person they care about. Comedienne Lily Tomlin famously said, “We have reason to... -
Thursday, November 28th, 2024Sexual Integrity
Every life crisis presents an opportunity, however painful, for personal growth. A primary goal for most recovering sex and porn addicts is developing sexual integrity. When defining what sexual... -
Friday, November 15th, 2024My Sobriety is Not Your Sobriety
Don’t be different just to be different. Do it to be the most authentic version of yourself. Long-term monogamy may be the goal for some (maybe even most) recovering... -
Saturday, September 28th, 2024Sexual Sobriety vs. Sexual Abstinence
The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely. Sex and porn addicts in the early stages of recovery typically have little to no idea what the term ‘sexual... -
Wednesday, September 4th, 2024Purposeful Recovery
Sex and porn addicts, like everyone else, were put on this earth to live their greatest self. The way in which sexual sobriety is defined is not set in...